CHAPTER 5: KAREN HORNEY

she actually ANTICIPATE the SOCIETY of their CULTURE. she felt that her PARENTS DOES NOT want her

KAREN HORNEY

- SOCIAL and CULTURAL CONDITIONS especially CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, are LARGELY RESPONSIBLE for SHAPING PERSONALITY.
- EPERIENCE from CULTURE and SOCIETY
- BASIC HOSTILITY and BASIC ANXIETY

PSYCHOANALYTIC SOCIAL THEORY

what are the THREE FUNDAMENTAL STYLES of RELATING to OTHERS:

MOVING TOWARD PEOPLE, MOVING AWAY PEOPLE , MOVING AGAINST PEOPLE

MOVING TOWARD, MOVING AWAY, MOVING AGAINST

the INFERIORITY of FEMALE

FEMININ PSYCHOLOGY

when Karen Horney was born?

SEPTEMBER 15, 1885

in 1906 – she became PART of the FIRST WOMEN to STUDY MEDICINE in GERMANY. she had SEVERAL LOVE AFFAIRS

KAREN HORNEY

for FREUD, UNCONSCIOUS and EGO however for HORNEY, SOCIAL and CULTURAL CONDITIONS

TRUE

Karen Horney have issue that she has a relationship with _________ but there is no evidence

Abraham Maslow

(1) according to horney, Early childhood experiences are important, but more so are SAFETY and SECURITY than sex .
(2) Horney's view was OPTIMISTIC , with HUMANITY centered on cultural forces AMENABLE to CHANGE

BOTH ARE TRUE

(1) Many of Horney's ideas FOCUSED on NEUROTIC individuals, yet can also be APPLIED to NORMAL people
(2) SOCIAL and CULTURAL CONDITIONS, especially CHILDHOOD experiences, are LARGELY responsible for SHAPING PERSONALITY

BOTH ARE TRUE

- FAILED to SATISFY CHILD’S NEEDS
- PARENTS’ INABILITY and UNWILLINESS to LOVE their CHILD
- it just like fixation in freud

BASIC HOSTILITY

- REPRESSED HOSTILITY towards their PARENTS
- FEELING of being ISOLATED and HELPLESS in a WORLD ONCEIVED as POTENTIALLY HOSTILE

BASIC ANXIETY

FEELING of being SMALL INSIGNIFICANT HELPLESS, DESERTED, ENDANGERED, in a WORLD that is out to ABUSE, CHEAT, ATTACK, HUMILIATE, BETRAY, ENVY.

BASIC ANXIETY

what are the 4 GENERAL WAYS to PROTECT the SELF AGAINST in FEELING of being ALONE in HOSTILE WORLD

Affection, submission, power, withdrawal

• NOT ALWAYS LEADING to the AUTHENTIC LOVE.
•But PURCHASED through SELF- EFFACING compromise, material goods, or SEXUAL FAVORS.

AFFECTION

EITHER to PEOPLE or INSTITUTIONS in order to GAIN AFFECTION. We DO SUBMISSION because we WANT something from that person

SUBMISSION

DEFENSE against REAL/IMAGINES HOSTILITY of OTHERS, and the TENDENCY to DOMINATE.

POWER (DOMINATION)

Developing INDEPENDENCE or EMOTIONAL DETACHMENT

WITHDRAWAL

RESULTS from CHILDHOOD feelings of REJECTIONG or NEGLECT by parents or from a defense against basic anxiety

Basic hostility

Results from PARENTAL THREATS or from a DEFENSE against HOSTILITY

Basic anxiety

Normal defenses
A Spontaneous movement
(friendly, loving personality)

Toward people

Normal defenses
Spontaneous movement
- A SURVIVOR in a COMPETETIVE society

Againts people

Normal defenses
Spontaneous movement
- (autonomous, SERENE personality)

Away from people

Neurotic defenses
Compulsive movement
- (compliant personality)

Toward people

Neurotic defenses
Compulsive movement
- (aggressive personality)

against people

Neurotic defenses
Compulsive movement
- detached personality

away from people

• NEUROTIC NEED to PROTECT ONSELF AGAINST FEELINGS of HELPLESSNESS.
• somehow
• MORBID DEPENDENCY from the term CODEPENDENCY.
•WILLINGNESS to SUBORDINATE themselves to others.
•RATE themdelves to what OTHER THINK of THEM.

MOVING TOWARD PEOPLE

•DETACHMENT
•EXPRESSION of NEEDS for PRIVACY, INDEPENDENCE, and SELF-SUFFIECIENCY.
•this becomes NEUROTIC when people try to SATISFY them by COMPULSIVELY PUTTING EMOTIONAL DISTANCE between themselves and the others.

MOVING AWAY FROM PEOPLE

_______ ________ _____ by appearing TOUGH OR RUTHLESS.
•STRONG NEED to EXPLOIT OTHERS and to USE them for their OWN BENEFIT.
•SELDOM ADMIT their MISTAKES and COMPUSIVELY DRIVEN to APPEAR PERFECT, POWERFUL and SUPERIOR.
• AGRESSIVE NATURE

MOVING AGAINST OTHER

• SOLVING CONFLICT by DEPICTING ONESELF as having GOD-LIKE qualities
•ISI is to create an EXTRAVAGANTLY POSITIVE PICTURE of oneself, in the ABSENCE of a stable REAL IDENTITY, EXISTING only in their PERSONAL BELIEF system.
•Neurotics begin to believe in their OWN UNREAL CONSTRUCTIONS as the ISI solidifies —moving toward IDEALIZING the IDEAL than real self.

IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE

Tendency to DEPRIVE OTHERS (masamang ugali)

POSSESSION

this is one of the 10 CATEGORIES of NEUROTIC NEEDS. Karen Horney explains that some individuals have a STRONG, UNHEALTHY DESIRE for OWNING things and seeking APPROVAL from OTHERS. This desire can BECOME EXCESSIVE and IRRATIONAL, LEADING to emotional DISTRESS and INSECURITY.

NEUROTIC NEED FOR POSSESSION AND APPROVAL

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. SUBMITTED that person because you SEE that person POWERFUL (SUBMISSION). Karen Horney suggests that some people develop a neurotic need for a powerful partner. This means they feel a strong compulsion to be with someone who holds authority or control. This desire can stem from deep-seated insecurities and can lead to imbalanced relationships and personal struggles.

NEUROTIC NEED FOR POWERFUL PARTNER

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. You can USE something for that PERSON to DEGRADE that person. To RESTRICT to GAIN ADAPTIVE BELIEF

NEUROTIC NEED TO RESTRICT ONE’S LIFE WITHIN NARROW BORDERS

This one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. Karen Horney explains this one of the neurotic needs as a STRONG DESIRE some individuals have to DOMINATE and CONTROL OTHERS. This need can STEM from feelings of INADEQUACY or INSECURITY, and it often LEADS to INTERPERSONAL CONFLICTS and DIFFICULTIES in forming healthy relationships.

NEUROTIC NEED FOR POWER

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. Karen Horney describes this one of neurotic needs as a COMPULSION some individuals have to TAKE ADVANTAGE of people around them for their OWN GAIN. This behavior can ARISE FROM feelings of INFERIORITY or a NEED to COMPENSATE for perceived WEAKNESSES. It often LEADS to MANIPULATIVE and HARMFUL interactions with others.

NEUROTIC NEED TO EXPLOIT OTHERS

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. Karen horney explain this one of the neurotic needs as a STRONG DESIRE some individuals have to GAIN APPROVAL and admiration from SOCIETY. These individuals may prioritize status and recognition over genuine personal fulfillment, leading to a dependence on external validation for their self-worth.

NEUROTIC NEED FOR SOCIAL RECOGNITIONS AND PRESTIGE

• This one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. this refers to people that they THINK TOO MUCH abouth themselves in result, they are AWAY to others.
• Karen horney describe this one of the neurotic needs as a strong desire some individuals have to be ADMIRED and PRAISED by others on a PERSONAL LEVEL. This need often stems from feelings of insecurity or inadequacy, and individuals may SEEK constant validation and ATTENTION to BOOST their SELF-ESTEEM

NEUROTIC NEED FOR PERSONAL ADMIRATION

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. this is one of the neurotic needs explain by karen horney a strong desire some individuals have to CONSTANTLY STRIVE for SUCCESS and RECOGNITION. This need can be DRIVEN by feelings of insecurity or a need to PROVE oneself, leading to RELENTLESS PURSUIT of goals even at the expense of personal well-being or meaningful relationships

NEUROTIC NEED FOR AMBITION AND PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENTS

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. Karen horney describe this one of the neurotic needs a strong desire some individuals have to rely SOLELY on themselves and AVOID DEPENDING on others. This need can arise from fear of vulnerability or a desire to avoid disappointment, LEADING to ISOLATION and DIFFICULTIES in forming CLOSE relationships.

NEUROTIC NEED FOR SELF-SUFFIECIENCY AND INDEPENDENCE

This is one of the 10 categories of NEUROTIC NEEDS. as a strong desire some individuals have to be FLAWLESS and INVULNERABLE. This need can stem from deep-seated insecurities and fear of criticism or failure. Individuals may strive relentlessly for perfection, but this pursuit often leads to dissatisfaction and anxiety.

NEUROTIC NEED FOR PERFECTIONA ND UNASSAILABILITY

COMPULSIVE DRIVE to ACTUALIZE the IDEAL SELF, incorporating it into all the aspects of life goals, self-concept, relations with others.

NEUROTIC SEARCH FOR GLORY

BELIEF of being ENTITLED to SPECIAL PRIVILEGES as aligned with their ideal selves
example: A person might have a neurotic claim of always needing to be the center of attention in social situations, constantly seeking validation and approval from others to feel worthy.

Neurotic claims

FALSE PRIDE BASED NOT on REALITY but the DISTORTED
example: Someone with neurotic pride might consistently boast about their accomplishments and seek to appear superior to others, masking underlying feelings of insecurity or inferiority.

Neurotic pride

The NEUROTIC SEARCH for GLORY leads people to UNHAPPINESS because they begin to REALIZE that their REAL SELF LAGS way behind their idealized self—despise the real self for being UNABLE to meet their ideals.

SELF-HATRED

the TYRANNY of the should is CONSISTENTLY PUSHED to REACH ever HIGHER STANDARDS of PERFECTION.
You're EXPECTING TOO MUCH

Relentless demands on the self

BERATING ONESELF, grandiose expressions, questioning own motivations, taking credit for improbable events.
You ACCUSE YOURSELF where you DONT actually committed

Merciless self-accusation

This refers to those INDIVIDUAL DO NOT have GUILT. Prone to be CRIMINALS because of the absence of guilt

ANTISOCIAL

What is MANDALA for KARL JUNG?

The wholeness or/of the self

belittling, disparaging, doubting, discrediting, ridiculing oneself. who see someone BLAMING THEMSELVES

Self-contempt

SHACKLED by TABOOS against enjoyment

Self-frustration

INFLICT HARM or SUFFERING on oneself, Example: Sadism

Self tornment/Self torture